im a fat guy with no money. would you like to date me?

Assalamualaikum!

biasalah kalau packing nak balik tu kena singgah lappy dan buat gitu gini.

so as i was browsing, i came across my friend in FB n her pictures of her dates with her boyfie.

aih banyak duit manusia sekarang eh..

lunches at hotshot restaurants and desserts and going to shopping malls and walking and (...)

i used to do the same thing back then and i also didnt realize how much i spend everytime i go out and 'date'. but now, growing up through so many mistakes i learnt that dates arent that fun anyway. the first one yeah, i guess. you go for lunch, eat ice cream, catch a movie, walk in a park da da da .. it ends, everyone is happy.

the second date it doesnt hurt when you actually do the whole process again.

third date, same old same old. fourth date you might want to eat in a better resturant. one with sushi or steak or some classy pasta. provided hang ada duit la.

point here is, i dont know where im getting to but there's just some question in my head that goes "what do you do on dates with no money?" like, where do you eat? what do u do next?

basically, the only thing i know thats worth doing in dates is eat. and eat and eat and eat. then? org buat apa eh berjam2? dulu aku jalan... jalan... jalan... takda apa pun. (muka blur)

i need some enlightenment here. im not asking on tips for dating. im just wondering what's the gist of it? what's so fun about dating? you cant bring ur guy to comment on ur clothes, u cant bring them to shoe shops. u cant complain much..

guys, u cant bring ur girl to futsal without making her damn bored (if she dislikes football), u cant bring her to NCBL without making her confused (if she doesnt understand basketball) u complain about games with her (she quits xbox already).

maybe couples now are more understanding or not that much of the typical type. i dunno. maybe they dont seem typical the first few months. but after 2 years.. what does the whole thing seem like? ur still gonna do the same thing everytime?

i dunno. where's the kick in dating. yeah u like the guy and girl but... (...) the activity available is kinda limited isnt it? i mean, ur not married yet. unless hangpa dah kawin bleh pegi backpacking kat europe (woohoo banyak duit bhai!) or just cuddling together on the sofa together watching good 'how i met your mother' episodes with onion and sour cream

flavored chips. that sounds nice.

just some thought tho. better start packing. ciao~