tentang rezeki dan jodoh

salam.

frankly whenever i see this topic i feel bored already. sbb ramai sangat yang nak bercerita tentang jodoh (esp jodoh.) but this post here is especially dedicated to my dear friend (you know who you are)

some of us might have a blissful long relationship with a person we love and some of us might not.

some of us have a rocky road of relationship. on and off. fights and stuff. love and fluff.

and once in awhile, bila baca terfaktab, we are reminded by posts about jodoh and rezeki, we are tamed and cooled down of our frustration and disappointments by these posts. that one day, Allah will grant us our other Half. but it all comes down to this;

how many of us actually hold on to this belief? or how many of us actually remembers this all the time?

a friend of mine, she had a chance to re-start her relationship with a guy she liked. but fate took a turn and when she made a decision to rekindle their relationship, this guy found another girl to be with. anyone with a clear mind would be broken hearted.

and i guess there are many more other stories out there that can initiate a lot of sadness and cause a person to say "sayangnya.." or "tak ada jodoh"

what i really wanted to say was.. dont fret Dear Friend.. Jodoh is SURELY in the hands of Allah and there's no other thing you should put your trust in except Him. He knows best for SURE.

you can go on for years and years of being single and find the PERFECT man or woman if He says so. you can also be in a long happy relationship but have your future spouse die on your wedding day.

Allah made everything happen for a reason. and we are born here on earth to go through life as it is. Sibukkan hati dengan mengingat Allah. Trust that only He can cure your sadness, cheer you up and find you love again. He gave you love, He can take it whenever He wants. it is therefore only logical that we love Him first.

Hati hanya akan menjadi tenang dengan mengingat Allah. Trust in Him. like, totally, fully trust Him. know that He loves you. Allah menyayangi hamba2nya yang bersabar. and He knows how much your heart hurts. and He will reward your patience if not here, in the Hereafter. :)

Be happy to know that you are strong and patient. Be happy that you are faithful to Him and not to your disappointment. Jodoh is TRULLY in the hands of Allah. and He will pave a way for you to meet your jodoh in a way unimaginable to the human mind. in a beautiful way only He knows. Trust Allah. :)