3S

bismillah. >.<

3S is the ultimate 24 motto. Single, Sexy and Smart.

Yes yes I know ini semua duniawi. But it's just an idea I had in my head for days and kinda changed how I see things not to mention my spending principles.

We only stay young or literally are young physically once. And that young period, your best time of your life, that period where you can eat the night away, like Red Velvets and Cheesecakes and steak and then workout to get that awesome bod. You are physically fit. You can run and sweat like a pig. You are able to do so. Sure you get some fat here and there, but the point is, you can workout to get back in shape.

I am, 24. And at the peak of my physical whatever-ness. I have muscles, I can sprint and ball like a 20 year old. I think I have a decent nice body and I love my hair. I love it when I wear shorts and singlets. I just love that feeling. So, I splurged on lace, neon-colored, printed underwear, singlets and colorful skirts and pants. Aim, sexy feeling.

I am also single. And I don't really feel that need to dress up so that I'll get someone to notice me. Honestly, I only get self conscious when I am WITH someone. Like, I need to dress to impress him. But since now, I'm just me when I go out, I'm not defined by my partner, I just look like me. I can be really selekeh at times and sometimes I feel like dressing up, just for myself, just to feel pretty and decent, I dress up. Being decent for myself. I didn't buy that winning prom dress or colorful skirts or that printed shawls to impress others. I did it because I wanted to feel decent on my own. It's personal satisfaction.

So, the smart part. I think it's important that girls DO NOT become bimbos. Like men, are somewhat accepted even if their dumb. Its such a norm that, when you see a smart guy, it becomes a plus point. But being a woman, you need intelligence, wit and charm to protect yourself. Against assholes and such. Example. You do not settle or should feel nice when a guy ogles you or tells you your butt is nice. Maybe you say tq but make sure to bitch slap him after you express your gratitude. Being smart for me also requires a lot of reading. More time doing work. Finding money. And less time on the phone and especially reducing the amount pictures of yourself on Instagram. Smart girls are not attached to the world. They do not live up to other peoples expectations, are not defined by them, and are incredibly independent.